There is nothing worse than hearing that minority groups are working or fighting against each other. Proposition 8 has certainly been one of those issues that seems to have pitted minority groups against each other which personally makes me feel very sad.

I’m sad for many reasons. Firstly minority groups generally have prejudice to overcome as a matter of course without causing further grief for each other. Secondly when I look at history (often in total horror and despair) I look at how hard minority groups have had to fight to gain equal rights – or any rights at all. I guess when I look at these things I feel very lucky, almost embarrassingly so. I am a white male born in Australia to two white married parents. I guess from that perspective I had it very easy.

When I look at how hard women fought for equal pay, the right to vote and even the right to education (many countries still do not recognize this equality) I feel as though I have had it easy. When I think of the Australian Aborigines who were not even considered Australian citizens and thus had no right to vote until 1967 (only 9 years before I was born) I feel like I was born a little luckier than others. When I look at the Tasmanian Aborigines that were literally wiped out – complete genocide (probably the darkest hour in Australia’s history) I feel as though I was born lucky.

When I consider the holocaust and mass genocide of around 6 million Jews I feel lucky to have been born in 1976. I feel immense respect for those who suffered, survived and even prospered through that period through intestinal fortitude that cannot be explained, and commitment to family and friends that is indescribable.

I cannot put myself in the position of a gay, lesbian, bi-sexual or transgender person who again as a minority was fighting in the Stonewall riots in New York or the riots that have become the Sydney Mardi Gras festival, celebrating diversity and freedom in Sydney and throughout Australia. So many people have given so much for the recognition of what we all take for granted and yet there is still so far to go. I want to be part of that going forward and Marquette Turner Luxury Homes as a company is committed to overcoming prejudice of all types.

These are all events endured by minority groups and the last thing that is needed is for minority groups to fight or contest against each other. When we look back at history we learn so much – we need to look at history to learn that we cannot let the same events repeat. I find it hard to believe that it became legal to be gay or lesbian in NSW in 1985 (I was 9 years old).

The main story of the day with regard to Proposition 8 has been the support the Mormons have given to defeat the rights of Gay and Lesbian people to marry. I find it staggering that a church could waste $25 million opposing Gay Marriage when God in my world is wonderful, accepting, joyous, happy and good. Why spend such an enormous amount of money preventing people from having the right to share and express their love in a legally recognized way? Imagine what this money could have done for the many starving people throughout the world?

I respect the fact that the Mormon Church exists and has the right to – past that point I have no interest in bigotry or causing mischief. I respect minorities of all types and in terms of the Christian Church, Mormons are certainly a minority.

I know that the media is reporting that older coloured Americans voted overwhelmingly in favour of Proposition 8. Let’s ensure that we don’t get caught up with minority group against minority group.

We must respect our differences and embrace our similarities – we have more things in common than not. Our similarities outweigh our differences. Please do not allow ourselves to concentrate on differences – we are all human beings – we all deserve the same rights and we all should care for each other. This is my view and the way we treat each other at Marquette Turner Luxury Homes.

Michael Marquette

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